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Realize Your Goals in 2012

Welcome to realizing your goals in 2012!  I am excited to begin this year as I feel the shift of new beginnings and new ways of being!  Whether you are a resolutions making type or not – the New Year often brings up questions of “what’s next!” for all of us. Though I do not create resolutions per se, for the past few years I come up with a word or phrase which becomes an overall theme for what I do in the year. My words last year were Clarify and Expand and as I reflect on the year, it was a definite theme!! This year,

This year as I have been pondering this question – the words that have come forth are Courage and Discipline – Courage to continue speaking my truth with a loving heart and discipline to deepen my spiritual practice.  I am sure that I am not alone when I report that I get on a really good path of daily meditation or journaling, weekly commitments to work on my business instead of just working in my business and then life happens! I get a diversion for a short period and it takes me longer than I realize to get back on track.  Now, I realize that diversions will always come up; however I can certainly get back on track with much more expediency.

Here’s one of the reason’s I know that this year will be different!  My Dream Team!  Yes – in the last couple of months I have invested my time and energy into a Dream Team.  Similar to the idea of a Mastermind Group, this is a hand-picked group of people that commit to creating and supporting your greatest dreams. You can orchestrate the format of the group to work for all involved and I will share with you how our group got started.

  • We have a group of 5 women entrepreneurs who have known each other for some years.
  • We are committed to our businesses but more importantly to the quality of life we wish to live.
  • We set up a 1 hour conference call on or as close to the new moon each month as positive thought forms and energies can be seeded on the new moon.
  • The first task was to write out our BHAD’s. (Big, Hairy, Audacious Dreams) and share them with the team. For those of you who have been reading my blogs, you will understand when I say that my dreams took on the form of My Big Five For Life! Please click here to see this particular blog post.
  • We decided the next steps would be to create a one page business plan which includes our Vision, Mission, Objectives, Strategies and Action Plans all tied into our long range dreams. We are currently working through this list.
  • Each month we set goals to complete for the coming month and all members can solicit the help of any other member throughout the month.
  • We keep each other abreast of our accomplishments and any inspirational material we believe worthy to share.
  • In the words of a recent Women’s Circle speaker, Virginia Hackson, the group represents some of our strongest Champions!

So far this group has been extremely valuable to me.  I am right on track with my objectives which include my spiritual and health practices!  I have great expectations for 2012!  How about you, what plans do you have and how are you supporting them?

I’d love your feedback. And, here on this blog, you’ll get commentluv. What a great opportunity for you to leave a link back to your own blog when you leave a comment.

Until next time,

Karen

 

 

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In my reiki master’s home is a plaque that speaks to me every time that I see it.  So whether you are celebrating Christmas, Hannukkah or a holiday season by any other name, I hope this will resonate with you in the coming weeks. It reads:

“Love me when I least deserve it because that is when I need it the most!”

This message reminds me of many moments in my life when those close to me are in “That Space”.  It happens often at this time of year when people are stressing out over the holidays. You know, those times when people in your life are miserable, moody, pushy or just closed off!  That is exactly what is happening – they or we are closing off the world because we are not feeling ready to take in any more.  The ‘more’ I am referring to, is more burdens, more challenges, more pain or whatever has put us into this place of negativity.  A self fulfilling scenario occurs as we express our own message of negativity to the world; we get more of that back.  Our ego gets to be right – we are justified in our bad mood because the world is just not kind and loving at this time.

We tend to give young children a break because we know they are just feeling hurt.  We approach them with a message that it’s not that bad and we attempt to shift their perspective so that they are happy and open once again.

Somehow when we grow up, we have higher expectations of ourselves and of course others do too.  I can hear that voice in my head saying “oh just snap out if it” when someone close to me is in “That Space” for too long.  I live with 4 men in my house ( 3 adult sons and my husband) who don’t let me get away with being in a negative space for very long at all before they will subtly say something like, “what’s up with you today – why are you in such a _____ mood?”  This usually triggers a response in me that complains about not even being able to be in a bad space – however, it is a gift.  I get to decide whether it is a worthy space to be in and deal with the issue or if I just need to bring awareness to an emotion inside me that I have not dealt with.

At a recent Women’s Circle, our presenter Virginia Hackson, had a brilliant way of expressing this.  She shared that it was never in our best interest to “rent space in our bodies to unresolved issues”. I love this simple expression because it is true!

So, when I find myself in a negative mood, I am learning to realize that I really need to show myself some love as I would to a young child.  And of course what we learn to give ourselves, we can learn to give others.  This Christmas season, when stress can create thin fuses in our emotional balance, let’s remember to “Show the Love!”

I will close this post with one of my favourite pieces that I recently rediscovered in my notes and will keep in the forefront over the coming weeks.

Today is the beginning of my new life.
I am starting over today.
All good things are coming to me today.
I am grateful to be alive.
I see beauty all around me.
I live with passion and purpose.
I take time to laugh and play every day.
I am awake, energized and alive.
I am free to be myself.
I am magnificence in human form.
I am the perfection of life.
I am grateful to be….ME.
Today is the best day of my life.
I focus on all the good things in life and give thanks for them.
I am at peace and one with Everything.
I feel the love, the joy, the abundance!

Feel free to share this with your friends and family! And I’d love your feedback. Here on my blog, you’ll get commentluv. This is a great opportunity to leave a link back to your own blog when you leave a comment.

Join me in creating each day to be the best it can be.  Some days will be easier than others but if we shoot for the Stars we won’t be disappointed!

Karen

 

 

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Balancing Work and Play

Last Friday was a special day!  I got to balance work and play! I spent the afternoon with my husband and 5 other couples making apple pies.  This has become an annual event and we all look so forward to the comradery and the fact that we have beautiful apple pies in our freezer to pull out throughout the year for a special dessert.

Let me back up – 11 years ago, I had a call from a friend who was putting together a couples’ activity group and wondered if my husband and I would enjoy participating.  There would be 6 couples and each would be responsible for creating an event once during the year for the group. I was all in to add a bit of play time to our busy schedules and jumped right in as it sounded like a wonderful idea.

We started off with a planning meeting where we all brought our ideas and calendars and we established the first 6 events. Many of us had younger children at the time ranging in age from approximately 7 – 13 so some events were classified as family activities and some just couples. Who would ever have known that 11 years later, we would still be a very active group and we look forward to every event with great excitement.

We have experienced things that as a couple we would never have known about or thought about for that matter!  We are always on the look out for a “couples’ idea” as the year unfolds and I keep a special folder that I put flyers, newspaper clippings and hand written ideas into to bring forward the next year.  We actually have our official 6 events now and a number of what we call “extras”! The apple pie making day has become an annual extra that started as one of the couples’ official event 5 years ago.  We loved it so much that we all committed to continue every fall after the apple harvest has taken place. The men work in the garage peeling, coring, cutting and mixing the apples with the magic recipe of cinnamon, sugar and flour.  They bring the bins of prepared apple filling into the kitchen where the gals are busy making pastry, rolling the dough, filling the pies and handing them back to the guys to bag and label.  Refreshments are served, we catch up on all the happenings of each family and end up with a pot luck dinner complete with fresh made apple pie for dessert.  The best part is, we leave at the end of the night with a supply of apple pies to tuck into the freezer at home.

This group has been an important outlet for creativity, laughter, support during challenging times and a very special part of all of our lives.  The activities range from themed and costumed dinners like a King Henry VIII feast, outdoor hiking excursions, camping weekends, music, theatre, games nights, boat tours, winter tubing, tobogganing and on and on.  Here’s what’s coming up for this year:

  • We kicked off with an evening guided lantern tour of the Sharon Temple followed by a visit to the Roast of Sharon to listen to the band.
  • A full dress Halloween Dinner Party where every part of the meal was in complete theme for the evening.
  • A dinner ride on the York Durham Heritage Railway.
  • A visit to the ROM in the spring.
  • A evening of up-close magic with a professional magician to entertain after our swim and bbq dinner.
  • A tour of the Butter Tart Trail.

Most of our lives have ample demands for our time and energy and having this group gives a little respite to the hectic schedules. We always have lots to laugh about and we are reminded of the special gift that friendship brings into our lives.  We dream of taking a grand trip one day like boating down the French waterways or going to New Zealand and you know – I believe it will happen!  So – I encourage you to explore this idea if it sparks an interest.  I am happy to share specifics if anyone is interested.  How about you – do you have annual group events that bring richness to your life?  I would love to hear about them. And when you leave your comment, don’t forget to take advantage of the commentluv you will find here and leave a link back to your own blog at the same time! Of course I am always open to great ideas to host for our events too – pass along your ideas! LOL

Until next time,

Karen

 

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11-11-11 was a special day whose significance extends beyond its unique date. It was special because the entire world shared in the hope, blessings and meaning of this day. Around the world people shared conversations that focused on enlightenment, possibilities and potential. But the world didn’t end (it wasn’t supposed to) and we continue with our life journey. Now that 11-11-11 has come and gone, we must focus on carrying the energy’s momentum into the days following it. We do that by practicing integration, staying aligned with our intentions and putting them into practice to live at our peak performance every day. Like any other energetic shift, it’s what we do after it happens that is important. As Jennifer Hoffman simply put it, “the Universe delivers the energetic package, but we have to open it and decide where its contents should go”.

I understand that not everyone reading this will be in the same place of interest with the significance of the shifting energy right now and that is totally great.  No matter what our understanding and beliefs are about the world shifts, we can all benefit from the foundational guidelines for living our life with intention and to focus on enlightenment, possibilities and potential!  In fact, if we all made a decision to do that today, there would be a HUGE energetic shift in consciousness that would manifest in countless ways around the world. However – let’s bring it back to you and me! How do we practice integration and stay aligned with our intentions?  From my experience – it comes down to a few core components carried out with consistency.  My colleague Shawn Nisbet, who is a holistic nutritionist, finds clients can relate when we think of our core components as the wheels on a car.  All four wheels require attention to keep the car balanced. In no particular order, the four wheels represent:

  1. Nutrition
  2. Rest
  3. Exercise
  4. Stress Management

The steering wheel can represent the Spiritual – the true driver! If any wheel is flat, the ride is affected. We can all handle being off balance for short periods of time before the body gives us stronger and stronger signals to pay attention to before a breakdown will occur.

For me – I want to be at peak performance to live my life every day. Together with my Dream Team, I have created a vision statement and business plan that incorporates strategies for all four wheels. The first 3 are quite straight forward so I thought I would share with you my strategies for the 4th wheel entitled Stress Management.

  • Spend quality time with my family.
  • Do what I do best and where possible enlist the help of experts to do the rest. Ie: book-keeping, social media, financial consultant, nutritionists, estheticians, masseuses, hair stylists.
  • Work with a coach/mentor to stretch, support and guide me in what I say I want.
  • Meditate a minimum of 15 minutes daily and do self reiki.
  • Always make time for my hobby of singing weekly with the North Metro Sweet Adelines chorus and part time with my church choir.
  • Connect regularly with my friends.
  • Spend time outdoors – no matter what season it is!
  • Do good deeds whenever the opportunity presents itself.
  • Have play time.

These are a few of the things that feed my soul and bring richness to my life.  What do you do to lower the stress level in your life? I’d love your feedback!  On my blog you’ll get commentluv. This is a wonderful opportunity to leave a link back to your own blog when you leave a comment.

Until next time,

Karen

 

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I recently spoke at a wellness event about life balance with reference to the Enneagram.  This is an important focus for me and hence the tag line under my business name.  There are many ways to look at balancing our lives and all of them will bring awareness because we are taking time to reflect on our own situation.  If we did this more frequently, we may even avoid the experience of spending long periods of our life out of balance!

For my presentation, I decided to once again focus on the wisdom of the Enneagram to bring insights on how each of us may get out of balance.  The Enneagram is a dynamic personality system that highlights 9 different ways of thinking, feeling and acting in the world as well as acknowledging the accompanying strengths and challenges each type connects with.  Previous blog entries have covered an overview of each of the nine types if you require more detailed information here.

What I have witnessed in myself and others, is that our gifts and strengths when out of balance, become our greatest challenge. I liken it to having blinkers on that the race horses are often seen wearing to keep their focus straight ahead on the track. When we have our blinkers on and are focused on the very thing that our personality tunes into with all of our energy, it is safe to say that there are aspects of our lives that are getting the short end of the stick.  That action typically does not act in our favour long term. It is a way that we get ourselves “stuck” so to speak.  Let me give you a brief run down for each type from my experience.

Type 1 – naturally notices what is wrong in any given situation in order to improve it. They want to ensure the details are correct before moving ahead with a decision or course of action to create the “best” outcome. Sometimes we don’t get to have all the details in life and need to move ahead anyway. One’s can get paralyzed and not see the forest for the trees.

Type 2 – naturally focuses on the happiness of others and takes a personal responsibility to support that end. If the energy is continually focused outwards and nothing is coming back to refuel the 2’s tank, they run themselves empty, unable to do what they desire most to do.

Type 3 – naturally focuses on gaining acceptance and recognition by achieving success in whatever they do. When all focus is on obtaining the goal and how that will bring them joy and the joy does not come, they connect with their inner feelings and wonder “what’s the race all about?”

Type 4 – naturally focused on being authentic to their inner truth and uniqueness, can get overwhelmed in the enormity of their feelings and become unable to move forward or determine what is really true in moment for them.

Type 5 – naturally focused on their journey of continuous learning and maintaining a self sufficient live style, fives can get disconnected from the outer world and their own basic needs to look after their body.

Type 6 – naturally focused on being well prepared for whatever their current life situation is requiring, can get lost when too many uncontrollable variables are happening all at once. They lose faith that they have all the skills necessary to handle whatever is present.

Type 7 – naturally focused on being spontaneous and joyful to the possibilities of each day, notice that when no discipline is given to what seems like menial tasks or commitments, can create too much discomfort around them. This is exactly what they wish to avoid.

Type 8 – naturally focused on being in control, creating their own decisions and making them work; can get stuck in an all or nothing mode. And sometimes they get nothing!

Type 9 – naturally focused on keeping inner peace, they also attempt to not rock the boat in their outer world.  Sometimes in order to keep the inner peace, they must rock the outer world and they can become stuck before deciding to do this.

For all types, it is important to “stop” the business of life and create more opportunities to “be”.  To connect with our wholeness, the mind, body and heart at one time. When we can find activities that bring a balance to our inner being, we will create balance in our outer experience. I would love to hear your stories of how you know when you are out of balance and how you bring yourself back.

I offer commentluv here on my site. When leaving a comment, you can opt to leave a link back to your own blog site as well!

Until next time,

Karen

 

 

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Reiki and Religion

I was asked by a reader to discuss my views on reiki and religion.  As an active Christian member in my church and a reiki practitioner for over 15 years, I felt drawn to respond to the request.  In fact, I just led a healing service this past summer at our church while our minister was on holidays.  I was able to find numerous supporting scripture verses to support “laying on of hands” as a healing modality. My initial reiki Master taught that “reiki takes care” as she would have students in her classes of different religious background or those who didn’t have a specific religious belief.  In these three words, I would also hear, “God takes care”, as it is not the reiki practitioner who does the healing.  We provide the channel for the universal life force to come through and provide whatever healing is required for the person’s highest interest.  These wise words of guidance take the responsibility for healing away from the practitioner.  In fact, my focus is to get out of the way and not let my ego take a lead role in the session.  So – my own inner belief is that I am supported by God to bring love through me to provide healing which can often be called energy healing.  As a person experiences this energy healing, they in turn often connect to their inner guidance that always knows what is true. As such it can be difficult to describe as each person experiences the healing in a different way pending their current physical condition, their belief systems and their ability to tune into the messages of their body.

The December 2010 issue of Oprah Magazine had a full article from Susan Casey on her experience going to Brazil to see John of God.  Here is an excerpt from that article that addresses energy healing.

“Despite widespread skepticism, evidence shows that energy healing not only exists but can be deeply powerful. Traditional Eastern treatments like acupuncture and Reiki act to strengthen the body’s life force, known as chi or prana. Prayer as a conduit for healing is a long-held religious ritual, along with the laying on of hands. Though belief in the effectiveness of prayer is as old as civilization, the results are tough to pin down. Bernard Grad, PhD, a Canadian biologist from McGill University, worked with a spiritual healer named Oskar Estebany conducting controlled studies in the late 1950s and ’60s. Using mice that had been uniformly wounded, Estebany would place his hands upon the wire covers on certain cages, willing those animals to heal. The results were dramatic: In one experiment, the wounds on Estebany’s treated mice were “very significantly smaller” after two weeks than those of mice that had been left to heal on their own. The team also discovered that plant seeds exposed to energy healing grew at a faster rate. There was a force here, they agreed, and it appeared to be doing something beneficial. What that force was, however, no one could say for sure.

One physician I knew to be interested in John of God’s work was Mehmet Oz (known by many as Dr. Oz). As a cardiac surgeon his training had been rigorously scientific, but he wondered about what Western medicine didn’t yet know. “I think the next big frontier is unlocking the doors to energy medicine,” Oz told me. “It dramatically broadens our vista of opportunities to heal. The challenge we have is that energy is not as easily quantified as the surgeon’s scalpel.” Please click here for a link to the full article.

In researching other thoughts on this topic, I also uncovered an interesting discussion specifically on reiki and Christian beliefs.

“As Christians search for ways to follow more fully Jesus’ teachings and examples in order to draw closer to God, it is important to be aware of the examples Jesus set for us. Many of these focused on healing others (Matt: 14:14, Mark 3:10, Luke 4:38-39). And much of his healing was done by laying on hands. Here are a few examples: In Matthew 8:14-15, Jesus uses touch to heal Peter’s mother-in-law of a fever. In Mark 1:40-42 Jesus uses his hands to heal a man with leprosy. This is also mentioned in Luke 5:12-13. Matthew 20:29-34 describes how Jesus healed two blind men by touching their eyes and in Mark 8:22-25 Jesus uses his hands to heal another blind man. In Mark 7:32 35 he uses touch to heal a man who is deaf and can’t speak. In Luke 7:12-15, Jesus raises a dead man by touching his coffin and in Luke 8:49-55 Jesus uses touch to return a dead girl to life.

Scripture clearly indicates that healing is something appropriate for Christians to be involved with. Christians who have a solid foundation in their faith know that God will always protect and guide them. Those Christians who practice Reiki do so within the guidance and protection of God secure in the belief that they have been guided to follow Jesus’ example to be a healer.”  Please click here for more information.

So to sum up from my viewpoint, I believe in the healing power of reiki as I have both experienced and witnessed incredible healing over the past 15 years. Whether the magical shifts come from the power of our intention, from our own higher self, from a divine connection or God power, you can come to your own conclusions.  I know that for me it brings a broader spiritual focus to my life, that it works and it brings me peace and joy and connection to a deep loving presence.  That’s good enough for me!  I am aware that I covered a Christian focus to this piece and welcome input from others.

On this blog, you’ll get commentluv. This is an opportunity to leave a link back to your own blog when you leave a comment.

Until next time,

Karen

 

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Fall is officially here and so too is the fourth quarter of 2011! I attended a wonderful business symposium last week entitled “Business Innovation in Changing Times”. It was focused to give small and medium sized businesses access to ideas and insights to adapt their businesses to the changing marketplace.  The afternoon keynote speaker was Arlene Dickinson, CEO of Venture Communications and co-star of CBC’s Dragons Den. She shared real stories of her life journey and the lessons she learned about how to succeed in business and as an entrepreneur. They were tough, funny and very relate-able, especially for the women in the audience.  Arlene highlighted the incredible opportunity we have in Canada to live a life that we choose.  To remember what motivates us and to take opportunities when they present themselves and figure out the how tos along the way.  I look forward to reading more about her life lessons from her new book “Persuasion”.

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Speaking Our Truth

I tell people what really drew me to reiki and to the Enneagram was the ability to connect with my truth.  What’s the big deal with this anyway?  I believe that there is a direct correlation between connecting to our truth and true health and happiness.

I refer to a quotation that I often use in my announcements for Enneagram courses and that is “We are unconscious of 80% of what we think, say and do!”  That is a huge percentage and not one that instills a feeling of joy in most people! You see, we have been so programmed by life from the moment we entered this world, that our belief systems run most of our decisions.  Here are some examples that begin very early.

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“The beginning is always today.” ~Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley~

I recently flew out to Calgary to get our youngest son set up at University.  He was required to arrive early for pre-season training with the varsity men’s soccer team and I jumped at the opportunity to spend a few days together and move him into residence.  We had a great time and I was able to appreciate the commitment he had made to his soccer that gained him a spot on the team and he was able to appreciate the support that he always received at home that enabled him to focus on his training.

Now was the new beginning for both of us because our children’s growth is also our growth!  He will take over from here – the responsibility for his living arrangements, his training and his academics.  I on the other hand, have been released from my usual support duties and take over the role of cheer leader and advisor IF I get asked!

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“According to A Course in Miracles, everything in life involves relationship. Relationships with other people are “assignments,” in which two or more are brought together for maximal and mutual growth opportunity. Our relationships can be trips to heaven or trips to hell, depending on how we ourselves choose to perceive and interact with others.

Relationships can generate fear or they can generate love. It is through relationships that we either fall into patterns of limitation that would consistently hold us back, or rise to our most creative possibilities in life.”

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